so here!.. first time pAg pOSt.... obvious ba?=p i. my mind is wandering, and so i might as well talk about something here that has sense (naay isa ka vIewer,ayaw pag pAnaway huH??)haha.. here i go! =)
---i am convinced that no one completes anyone, really.. let's admit it..
a certain person could make another one's life easier, better, a lot happier, but not 'complete' it, for every being should be able to feel a state of completeness in himself/herself.. if not, then that being's life would just be dependent of the other person, which isn't any good.. it is a mistake lovers especially commit.. out of sweetness, one tells the other something like "i need you to complete me," "you make me whole," or even in extereme situations "i would die if you ever leave me".. what the? but yeah, it does take place in reality..
life could sometimes be full of drama, don't you think?=p i'm not saying that it is wrong to need others or have them around to make you happier or to feel more satisfied in life, it is just that it would be better if a person can stand his/her own ground.. even more, would you like the idea that during all the chapters of your life before you met that somebody-who-came-and-completed-you, you have been incomplete all along? i'll tell you what.. the solution is practically simple.. instead of having another person complete you, find someone who would be able to complement your completeness.. because it is through that in which wonderful things like LOVE could be given unconditionally.. also in that way, the tendency of people to hurt others (whether deliberately or not) would lessen tremendously..
if it so happens, imagine how the world could be a lot better place to live in.. if ever my significant other happens to be reading this by now, i just would like to thank YOU for complementing my completeness..=) i.thank.you.bow!
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